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Monthly Archives: January 2012
The Shame/Blame Game
“I just want to hear that it wasn’t my fault and that it wasn’t my responsibility to make it stop.” A male survivor posted that on Male Survivors from Sexual Abuse (a Facebook support page – and it just got … Continue reading
Posted in child abuse, child abuse survivor, Life, social issues, social stigma
Tagged blame, child abuse survivor, facebook, life, Mental Health, self improvement, shame, social issues
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The Truth In Advertising
I am a big fan of the English language. As a result I pay a lot of attention to what advertisers say – and even more important, how they say it. I am a wonderful spin doctor – but I’d … Continue reading
Posted in Education, Life
Tagged ads, advertisements, advertising, business, commercials, education, life, new, TV
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Misconceptions
So I go to my dentist today and they get to talking how they didn’t realize my dad was one of their patients. “He’s my buddy!” she brightly exclaimed. “Good for you,” I said, trying to keep the cynicism out … Continue reading
Posted in Anger, Family, Life
Tagged child abuse survivor, DID, dissociative identity disorder, family, hypocrites, life, Mental Health, misconceptions, relationships
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When the Music Died – Song of the Angels
When the Music Died – Song of the Angels When I was a child I used to love to sing. I would sing to myself all the time. Sitting in the corner, playing with my toys – I would chirp … Continue reading
Life, Physics, And God
In the universe everything is pretty much predictable, following the laws of mathematics, physics, and science. Particle ‘A’ bumps particle ‘B’ giving rise to velocity and vector changes in both, or in some cases, such as a collider collision, giving … Continue reading
Shaking the Shame of Being A Molested Child
Shaking the shame of having been a molested child is one of the hardest things do sometimes. To put things more succinctly: “Shaking the shame of having been a sexually used BOY is one of the hardest things to do.” … Continue reading
Healing Differences in Child Abuse Survivors
Why Do Some Child Abuse Survivors Fare Better than Others? (Faith over on Blooming Lotus asked this great question, and while commenting I realized my comment was too long. So I’m posting it here.) The best I can think is simple. … Continue reading
Posted in child abuse, child abuse survivor, therapy
Tagged child abuse survivor, counseling, family, life, Mental Health, mental wellness, Psychology, therapy
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The Yin to My Yang
She is my wife; I am her husband. She’s the yin to my yang, an anchor on a drifting boat sometimes, a rock to a lonely albatross a drink to a wino, luck to a leprechaun who has lost his … Continue reading
Posted in creative writing, Life
Tagged differences, faith, family, life, love, marriage, opposites, relationships, wives
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Random: 01112012:1719
The morning after we posted “Dig & Chew: A Lesson Learned“, Dig and Chew, my two dogs, almost killed a cat. I say “almost” because I had to (with great distaste) finish the job. I went outside as is my morning … Continue reading
Posted in child abuse survivor, Life
Tagged child abuse survivor, DID, life, random, stores, writing
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DID Detectives: Tricks of the Mind
It was while we were in Puerto Rico this last summer that we became aware that there was ‘someone’ playing mind tricks on us – and it wasn’t just from ‘outside’. It was an insider one as well. And we … Continue reading
Posted in Almond, DID, DID Detective, Military
Tagged child abuse survivor, DID, experiences, Mental Health, military, psycho-analysis, Psychology
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