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Category Archives: dissociative identity disorder
Aoela: Discovering Maternal Love
We don’t like babies. Never have. Find them confusing; not human beings at all. More like little animals you have to take care of, and raise into human beings. For one they, they smell and look funny with their big … Continue reading
Posted in DID, DID Advantages, dissociative identity disorder, Life
Tagged babies, child abuse survivor, DID, experiments, life, love, maternal love, Mental Health, mothering, self improvement
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DID: The Baby and the Bathwater
All too often people with DID1 and those who treat them want to do the same thing: get rid of the baby (the ‘voices’ in your head) while keeping the bathwater (the things ‘they’ did). They want the alternate personalities … Continue reading
DID: A State of Mind
It occurred to us last night: DID (dissociative identity disorder) is a state of mind. It is a way of thinking – and dealing with – the outside world. It is a trick invented by a young child’s mind to … Continue reading
Posted in DID, dissociative identity disorder, social issues, social stigma
Tagged DID, health, life, Mental Health, Psychology, social issues, stigma
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DID Detectives: Curse vs. Cure
DID Detectives: Curse vs. Cure(s) Being DID, I have a vested interest in learning what I can about dissociative identity diagnosis in general, and ‘myself’ in particular. What I’ve learned thus far is that every DID ‘victim’ is different, therefore … Continue reading
Strange Dreams, Life Dreams
As my anti-dream medication runs out, I’ve been cutting back on it, which means more dreams. Today I ran out – which means the dreams will begin. I’m not looking forward to it, though in some ways “I” am. I’m … Continue reading
Posted in child abuse survivor, dissociative identity disorder, Life, The Boy
Tagged child abuse survivor, DID, dreams, experiences, life, life dream
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A Nut In A Rut
“I’m A Nut” (A Children’s song . . . one I learned after I met my wife and kids – and one of my favorites – for obvious reasons, LOL! If you are DID you probably understand why that is … Continue reading
Posted in children, DID, dissociative identity disorder
Tagged childhood, children's song, DID, poem, song lyrics
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DID Detectives :)
I (or “we”) are playing “DID Detectives”. I know we’ve got a missing person or two in the system. This wouldn’t seem to mean much – it might even seem a good thing, because face it: who needs more “alternate … Continue reading
Missing Time
It’s come more and more to our attention that we are missing some time. Maybe even years. This would explain some “distortions” in our timeline; our confusion sometimes about when what happened where . . . You see, this is … Continue reading
Posted in Alters, DID, dissociative identity disorder, Family, Life, Matthew, MPD
Tagged child abuse survivor, DID, dissociative identity disorder
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DID and Me
Sam Ruck put out a good post the other day: “A Husband’s Definition of Dissociative Identity Disorder”. For anyone who wants to gain some insight into someone with DID, his blog is an excellent resource. And Sam’s blog has made me … Continue reading
DID: When Is It A Disorder, Diagnosis, or Disease?
We are going to take another stab at this subject – and hopefully a less ‘wandering’ and more rational one than last time. We feel it is important that people should know the difference – both ‘normal’ folks (singletons and/or … Continue reading

