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No. 9 . . . A State of Mind


We realized something as we began writing this entry.  “We” are one (duh!) and yet ‘many’.  Okay?  You got that?  Now: where did ‘they’ come from?? That’s part of the mystery and thing about being DID: discovering one’s one self.  … Continue reading

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DID: The Baby and the Bathwater


All too often people with DID1 and those who treat them want to do the same thing: get rid of the baby (the ‘voices’ in your head) while keeping the bathwater (the things ‘they’ did).  They want the alternate personalities … Continue reading

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The Reason For Everything


There is only one reason anyone – including you – do anything.  One.  Just ONE reason. To be happy. First, let me establish that you cannot be happy if you do not survive. Second, let me establish that you cannot … Continue reading

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A Doctor’s Betrayal – and Blackmail


Here’s the dilemma and I HATE this.  Today is my regularly scheduled doctor’s appointment.  This is the doctor who’s office sent the FAX which had me and us involuntarily committed.  He denies having sent the fax or having me committed … Continue reading

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Three Birds Art


Just some art stuff we did recently … made from old palm frond trimmings collected from Beaufort SC by the wife last year . . . Like windsocks, their shape turns them into the wind . . . We tied … Continue reading

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Death and Rebirth


First, a note. This occurred somewhere around July 1st while we were being held in Puerto Rico. We had been starved down by about twenty pounds in ten days; verbally and emotionally abused, and we’d tried to escape, walking for … Continue reading

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It’s Your Choice


It’s your choice. You choose whether you feel happy or sad about something. You choose whether something is a gain or a loss. You choose whether or not to learn the lesson given or implied. You choose whether to take … Continue reading

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PTSD: Exerpt From American Legion Article & Comments


The following is from the September 2011 Issue of “American Legion” (click HERE for full article by Ken Olsen plus video) on PTSD: “One of the most important contributions of (veterans) was they refused to accept the diagnosis of paranoid … Continue reading

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So What IS Abuse?


Abuse.  What is “abuse”? Dictionary.com defines abuse as: a·buse 1. to use wrongly or improperly; misuse: to abuse one’s authority. 2.to treat in a harmful, injurious, or offensive way: to abuse a horse; to abuse one’s eyesight. 3. to speak … Continue reading

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Where We’ve Been


We’ve been busy . . . with LIFE.  You know that thing: things to do, people to see.  Life gets busy around here some of the times, and lately for a lot of good reasons.  Indeed, today I (and we) … Continue reading

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